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What this can feel like

From the inside, it often sounds like this.

  • You’re tired of being asked how you’re doing and tired of saying “okay.”
  • Some part of the loss hasn’t quite landed yet, and you don’t know whether to push it or wait.
  • The people around you have moved on a little faster than you have.
  • You’re afraid of what happens if you let yourself feel the whole thing.
  • It has been longer than you expected and you’re not sure if that means something is wrong.